Wednesday, August 31, 2011

quiet days

It's been awhile and I feel like almost nothing has happened worth mentioning.

But then I was thinking and maybe something has happend after all...
For example I'm now a mom to a 20 year old.... can't believe it, but Alyssa actually turned 20 last week and that makes me feel OLD! Luckily I'm also a mom to an 8 year old, so that should even things out a bit ha ha!

Last weekend we went to Smedjans Dag at Hävla. It's an old community built around a black smith mill. They renovated it some and keep it open as a museum and one Saturday per year, people dress up in old clothes, they get the old mill going, they talk about the old time, and keep the house where the workers and their families lived open.

My family has always went there because my moms moms dad was the very last master black smith working there and my grandma grew up in that one room apartment. So when she was still alive she met up with relatives and old childhood friends there every year. And my mom and her siblings have kept the tradition going and provide new information, some pictures or what ever needed for the museum every year.
It was fun going there again after so many years to find that nothing had changed. The old lady that shows my great grandpa's room is still there, looking fragile and so adorable you have to fight the temptation bringing her home. The fika at the little cafe is still the same, just a little more expensive and the same people and attractions are still there as well.

We left to go to a big fair/market/sale in a neighboring community. Lots of vendors selling crafts, linen, food and old stuff were there. I had to restrain myself from not buying everything I saw it was so many beautiful things!!!

No one use ice here. The drinks are served without ice and it drives my kids insane. So I found a vendor at that market place who sold ice cube making bags that you just fill up with water and throw in the freezer. I bought a bunch of them! Dale promised to look for a little ice maker back home and bring it over here.

The kids are in school and they enjoy it big time. Both of them think the woodwork/ sewing class is by far the best thing every week.

On Sunday evening I went to a aerobics class at the school's gym. It was fun, and I got to meet some of the other ladies in the community. I am still a little sore from it.

Saturday I learned that the people we're waiting for to move out of "our" house won't move until December 1st. What a bummer!!

So now we're looking in to move in to a small apartment a couple of hundred feet from here while we're waiting. It's just a one bedroom, a living room, kitchen bathroom and laundry room, but it has a covered porch in the front and a balcony in the back. 4 small apartment is in this small building and it's still very close to school for the kids and we think it might be worth it. To have to live in a suitcase for an other 3 months here at my cousin's house is feels kind of overwhelming. We're waiting for a time from the land lord.

Fall is on it's way. I packed away all the kids shorts and tank tops this morning and made room for long sleef and fleeces instead. I know most Swedes probable don't like when the days get shorter, the cold weather hits and the constant rain from charcoal clouds, but I love it. The air is so fresh, it's so easy to breathe and I just can't get enough of it.

I have to go for a walk...

Tuesday, August 23, 2011

Starting School

Östra Ryd’s school is a K through 6th grade school with a total of 87 students. It’s an old school with its doors open all the time.

School lunch is made fresh from start across the street where there’s a nursing home. The cooks there (three of them in total) prepare food for the preschool, school and nursing home every day. All kids come in the small cozy cafeteria and get their own plate and serve themselves what they want from the canteens. You can take seconds if you want, there’s a salad bar and a table with crisp bread and other bread with butter to put on. When you’re done you put your plate on the dish washer trays and tell the cook Thanks for the food. You don’t have to wait, you just leave when you’re done and go out for recess. But first you have to put on your shoes of course…. There’s no shoes allowed in the classroom or in the cafeteria. In the wintertime the kids are encouraged to have indoor shoes or slippers on and there are big dryers outside every classroom for winter boots and coats, mittens and stuff.

As parents you can come and go as you please and there’s no ID check or anything…


Erik’s class is a 3rd and 4th grade combined. A total of 14 students about the same amount of 3rd graders as 4th graders.

Here’s his schedule …
Monday-Thursday 8:45-2:40 and Friday 8:45-1:20

Specials are:
Monday: Music and Art.
Tuesday: Music and PE
Wednesday: Art
Thursday: Sewing class/ woodwork class, altering
Friday: PE

There’s a 20 minutes recess in the morning. 40 minutes for lunch and recess and then another 10 minute recess in the afternoon. When it’s science they spend that class out in the woods. PE was a huge hurdle for Erik because he didn’t like the idea of changing for PE and have to take a shower afterwards. But it worked out just fine!!!

Syssa’s schedule is
Mon. and Wed. 8:45- 1:15
Tues. and Thurs. 8:45-2:40
Fri. 8:45-12:10

She has the same specials but every Thursday morning to lunch they spend in the woods.

Her class is also a combined class with 1st and 2nd graders in one classroom. Only 14 kids in that class with 7 in each grade.
I have spent today in their classes helping them out when needed and had lunch with both of them.

Tomorrow I’ll let them be by themselves and the teachers will give me a call if they need me for something. And next week they start Frita (after school care) so they’ll have somewhere to be until I come home from work.
I think it’s going to be great!!!!


Sunday, August 21, 2011

Moving to Östra Ryd

After about two weeks with no electricity, no running water, and no bathroom or anything of what we normally take for granted it felt pretty good to load the car up and go out to Östra Ryd on Saturday morning. And since it had rained about 2.5 inches of rain the last 24 hours it also felt pretty good to get away from the constant moisture that thin walls can’t keep out in the cabin we had stayed in.

We had been invited to a crawfish party on Saturday afternoon and we also had scheduled to get a showing of our future home so after a quick lunch at Peter and Lena’s we walked over to Fridlunda.
And I had to say I was very positively surprised. I had pictured a small house with dark hallways and small rooms with a tiny kitchen and maybe very old and rugged wallpapers from the mid 70’s. But this house is nice, a few color changes on some walls maybe but that’s it.

OK, so it’s a two story house with walk outs on both levels, since it’s built on a slope. So you walk in through the front door and the house looks like a one story from that side. A big hallway and kitchen on the right. Big enough to have a kitchen table, plenty of work space and bright and airy. The living room is not huge but enough to have a sitting area and also a dining area if you want. Big windows make the room bright and the view is lots of wheat fields.

Behind the living room is a bedroom, either the biggest kid room or could also work as a master. I think it will be Syssa’s room. A hallway leads down to two more bedrooms and a bathroom. That’s it for that level. Downstairs is a big hallway that could be a landing used for a reading room, office or whatever you want. A den used as a TV room has a door to the back yard and a huge covered patio. A guest bedroom next to that and in the hallway access to an enormous walk in closet.

Further down the hall a utility room, laundry room, bathroom and at least two more rooms for just storage and stuff.

Outside, a one car garage, two additional parking spots and a lawn with thick green soft grass. The yard isn’t huge but plenty for a garden, a trampoline for the kids, a sitting area outside the covered porch and some space to just run around on.

Now, there’s just one problem, the tenants living there now still don’t know when and where they will move, just that they want to get in to town, so we’re keeping our fingers crossed that it will work out fast and smooth for all.

Full of impressions and thoughts we walked back home to Peter and Lena and picked up lawn chairs and our food baskets and walked over to where the party was held. It was very nice to get to meet so many of the families out here at once, and there were a few that I know and remember from back in the days. I think it was close to 60 people there and tons of kids that our kids will go to school with so it was nice for them too to get to see some of the kids before school starts.

Even though it had rained so hard the day before and even sprinkled some earlier the sun came out and the weather really turned out great for the evening. So we sat outside eating the most delicious, huge crawfish fished from the little creek just a few hundred feet away. Ahhh, what a life!!!


How Difficult Can It Be To Get A Phone?

The next couple of days at the summer home we tried to get things accomplished at the same time as we wanted to make sure that we got time to enjoy the last few days together with fishing, walks in the woods, fikas and some good foods.
Finally my numbers got reconnected and we could go and pick up the car!!! The dealer had been nice and let us borrow a small Nissan while we waited for my stuff to go through but to get the one we had looked out felt pretty good!
Since my numbers were working again I thought we’d go by the phone place and get a phone and access to the world again. Said and done, we walked in, picked out a black iPhone 4 with the services I wanted and were about to get a contract when the sales guy says, well, I can’t get you a phone because you have not been living in Sweden for 8 months yet…. YOU’VE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME????!!!!!!!!
Now I can’t contain myself and I explode… seriously? And the guy says that it’s because so many people come in, get a nice phone and then leave the country to never be seen again… sigh! He says the only way to get around that is to have someone sign up for a contract for me and I pay through them for the first 8 months. Luckily I have a wonderful family and Peter promised to be my “parent” and go in there with me one day next week and sign the contract for me.

Saturday, August 20, 2011

August 11th

We took a break from fixing things today and just explored the woods around us. And went looking for mushrooms!!! Tons and tons of Chanterelles are growing in the woods at this time of the year and we picked two full bags of them! Yum!!!

August 10th


Trying to be a Swede again is trickier than I ever thought it would be.
Dale and I took a trip to the tax authorities today to give them all the paper work needed for us to be legally in Sweden. For me and the kids that shouldn’t be any problem since we’re Swedish citizens all three of us, and for Dale since he’s both married to me and the father of three Swedish kids that shouldn’t make it hard for him to get a permanent residency either…. Or so we thought!

A very nice lady told me I had to bring the kids with me to get registered and Dale has to go through the Migration authorities first and preferable through the Swedish embassy in the US.

So we left the tax place and went to go get a phone.

People are different in Sweden, they do not look you in the eye, they don’t say excuse me if they cut in front of you or actually they don’t say much at all to you.
We just noticed that on our short walk up to the mall where the phone shop was located. There we realized that it’s not easy to get a phone either. Since I’ve been living in the US for the last 11 years my personal number (my birth date plus a four digit number, is used for absolutely everything, from borrowing a book at the local library to voting) has been frozen so no one can use it. Smart, and I like that idea, but now I find out that it’s not that easy to unfreeze that number when I move back. It can take up to 2 weeks from the time I get all my documents to the tax authority… sigh! We left the phone store without a phone and frustrated.

Back out to the summer home where we’re staying until we move in with Peter and Lena.

We went fishing on the lake, nothing is more relaxing and soul healing than sitting in our boat on our lake with a fishing pole in my hand, looking at the shore line, reflecting over trees that fallen since last time, watching the loon land, and dive on the calm water, rinsing my hands in the cool water to get rid of the fish slime after taking a too small to keep pike off the hook and throwing him back in the lake.
Aahh, now everything feels much better!

August 9th


We’re finally here, so much has happened and it’s hard to know where to start. I think I last put something on there when we were reaching the Azores.

After being there for less than 24 hours we got through the PAX terminal (Dale’s great fear) with no problems what so ever and made it to Germany in much faster speed than expected, thanks to Chris McDonald!

The best and greatest crew ever that flew us all across the Atlantic finally landed at Ramstein AFB in the middle of the night. All the par shooters and us got off and while they loaded a bus to lodging on base we called a can cab and loaded all our 8 A3 bags and everything else to go to our hotel.

I just have to mention the crew. The best loadmasters in the world Matt and Adam, with their apprentices Heather and Carlos, made sure we were as comfortable as we possibly could. All of them, crew chiefs, navs, pilots and engineers really impressed me on this trip and I’m so proud to have a small part of the 52nd Roos and the best squadron on earth!

In Germany, Kaiserslautern we’re settling in at the Hotel America. A small very cozy hotel with no AC and the microwave out in the laundry room!!! We were so hungry we had to eat something when we got there and we heated some microwavable food up at 3am and got to bed totally exhausted. Those 8 bags were not easy to haul and this was just the first leg.

Breakfast was served and it almost brought tears to my eyes. So not American with real silver ware, coffee cups on a saucer, cheese, ham and marmalade for your bread and two different kinds of yogurts.

The first night’s chauffeur on the taxi ride was a very friendly German feller so we thought we’d use the same company to get a ride to Kaiserslautern train terminal. Big Mistake!!! The lady that came this time was a grumpy, rude and not service minded at all!! But she got us the train station and I guess that’s what’s important…

We had to print our tickets there, and I got in to the ticket counter, waited for my turn for about 10 minutes and when it was my turn the lady at the counter told me with a snotty voice that she couldn’t help me but I had to get the tickets out of a machine out in the hall. Since my German isn’t the best it was a struggle to understand what buttons to press and where to go on the machine but after a while I got the tickets and we started the haul again to the right platform.

4 different trains, 8 different hauls, totally rude people, no help, Erik falling out of his bunk bed in the middle of the night on the night train with a huge bruise on his back, bathrooms that don’t work, 24 hours straight, blisters on our palms, fingers and hands, Syssa throwing up in the walkway on the last train…. A summon of the last 24 hours on rails, until we finally reached my hometown of Norrköpng and my two cousins Stefan and Peter greeted us at the platform.

WE ARE IN SWEDEN!!!

Sunday, August 7, 2011

Second Day on a Never Ending Journey

Even though day number one wasn't very glamorous, this number two day is so far off as you can get.

We woke up at 3am local time and got on the bus to again to take us back to base. Then we just hung around for hours and hours waiting for God knows what.

I know for sure I would never been able to do what all these men and women in here do. Not so much the work or the mission or anything like that but I don’t know if my mind would be strong enough to take all this stress or lack of action or whatever NOT happening. And when I look around everybody’s just chillin’ trying to find the least uncomfortable position and try to get some sleep. They have realized I guess long ago that worrying and freaking out won’t change a thing, and that’s what I would never be able to realize I guess! I would get a heart attack or stroke within a week from just being annoyed at stuff! It’s great to see and try to learn from all these guys!
Yesterday, it took about 2 hours to get from the airplane to the hotel. The driver went back and forth on base first, stopping here and there for different paperwork to be done or turned in, then two stops at Shoppette and BX and on the way to the hotel, not knowing where he was going a couple of times.

The guys didn't mind, sure there was some smart comments here and there, but they are used to it and knows what to expect I guess. The kids did great too, a little complaint that it was hot, and MAN was it hot!!!! The only one that had to breathe to keep my calm was I. Just telling what bad self control I have!

Told one of the navigators when we came out to the hotel that I thought they've made a horrible mistake on the flight planning and by accident landed us in HELL… but I had just forgot how bad the heat and humidity is down south. Don’t miss that at all!!!!

Luckily the 30 parachutes had gone down to 20 parachutes. We sit crammed in with zero leg room. Hardly any air condition and just miserable in general. I have to keep reminding myself that it is a free trip and that we would never ever been able to bring all of our bags if it wasn't for this flight.

But, I’m not sure it’s worth it to be honest with you…
One thing that’s funny though is that whenever I complain about something, like; why did they turn the AC off all of a sudden? Dale always has the answer and a reason why, they have to turn the AC off for takeoff because we are so heavy and bleed air and blabla bla… haha

So now after I complained again this time on this very blog, we just took off from NJ where we stopped for refuel and now it’s an excruciation 7 or 8 hours ride until we get to the Azores where we’re staying the night again, hopefully a little longer night than the one we got last night.

I have to take time to brag about the kids, I know they have not ever won the price of the best behaved children in the world but after this trip I’m willing to put them in the competition, because I think they have a chance to win!
Unbelievable, they are not complaining, not fussing, not acting out and not freaking out because of the lack of sleep, crammed quarters or anything.

Dale is scared we won’t get on the space A from the Azores because they could not manifest us through the whole way due to mission number or something like that. We’ll see… I’m not too concerned about that but it’s probably because I’m busy freaking out about the train travel… see how good we share the family’s burden my husband and I??!!

PS, I was trying to upload some pictures of our trip but it won't work, as soon as I have fixed it though I promise adding some pictures to the posts!

Friday, August 5, 2011

And We're Off

Woke up at 4:45am and got a quick cup of coffee before waking the kids up and got them ready. Sissi was not very happy to wake up this early, about 6 hours or more before she normally gets out of bed. But we had asked her take us to the terminal and drop us off so she did, of course!!

We had been told to be at the terminal about 2.5 hours before takeoff but when we came there the doors were closed and not a soul in sight.

Syssa who was very upset over missing Sissi already sat down at the S sign on the compass rose, put her photo album and picture up of her and Sissi and sat there and mourned for a good while. I had to tell her to put it away so she could dry her tears and start think of something else.

When the people working there finally showed up, there’s something wrong and they thought we couldn’t go all the way for some reason, but I think it was all figured out after five or six of them put their heads together and stared at the computer….
Dinah, Sara Jo and Savannah had come to wave us goodbye, oh I’m so thankful for such wonderful friends!!!

We were taken by a van out to the plane and got to go in and find us some seats. And I’ll tell you… Those seats are not bad. I had heard and pictured in my mind that it would be horrible but I prefer these seats over regular commercial airplane seats any day.

Matt, one of the load masters gave us the briefing flight attendants usually do, you know, what happens if the cabin pressure drops and stuff like that. One of the other new loadmasters, Heather told me how to use the bathroom, and just a minute ago Syssa and tried it for the first time, not too bad!

The only main complaint I had was the noise, it is LOUD!!! Ear plugs don’t do much to block it out, it’s almost impossible to hear what people say, you have to talk right by their ear.

While writing this I think we’re about half way to Georgia and I know that the peace and the amount of room to roam around on will end there. 30 or so Army guys are going to join us for tomorrow’s flight so here in a minute Dale will take us up one at the time to the flight deck and show us what he does. Exciting!!!

Thursday, August 4, 2011

We've almost bought a car

So the very last day at the house has been wild...

Dale went to turn in our 8 bags, I went out for a coffee and bookstore visit with Sissi. Syssa got her hair trimmed, and I have ran around like crazy afraid to forget something.

I called my wonderful cousin Stefan today, funny, but he sounds and talks more and more like his dad, my beloved uncle. ha ha ha... Anyway, he looked online on different cars and I think we've found one we like and will buy it!!!!

An Opel Astra Caravan -07

wooohoooo!!!!!
So that's exciting.
Did I mention that I love my family in Sweden that are sooooo helpful?

Anyway, I might not have time to write anything until we get to Germany, but as soon as I get the chance I'll post something.

To all my American friends, I'll miss you, I LOVE YOU!! and I'll see you in January!!!!

taking a train across Europe

Woo Hoo!!!

We finally have made the decision how to get to Sweden, We booked our train tickets this morning!!!!!!!!!!!

This is a proof how high our tensions are, I woke up at 3am from Dale's voice down in the living room making hotel reservations in Germany!! I got up too, drank a cup of coffee and called Jens!
Jens was a very,very nice and pretty clearly speaking Danish guy working for the German Bahn (railroad). Feeling proud that we could communicate me in Swedish and him in Danish without even having to ask to repeat more than maybe once or twice!!!!

We'll have to switch trains 3 times but we're getting to sleep together in a small cabin on the 11.5 hour night train between Koln and Kopenhagen and the total trip is just short of 24 hours. Breakfast is included!!

So with a sigh of relief that hurdle is now passed!!!

Now all our 8 bags weighing 40 lb a piece need to get loaded on the truck and taken down to base this morning, so by tomorrow morning when we get on board all we have to worry about are our carry on backpacks!!!

Both Erik and Syssa came down with some kind of stomach bug yesterday so they've been throwing up... yuck!! Hopefully they will feel much better tomorrow morning!

Dale's nephew Justin came in to town from OK yesterday, he's going to be in a bike race this weekend and came to stay with us for a few days!! Very nice to see him, it has been more than a year since last time! Good Luck in the Race Justin!!!

My last day and last night in this house... mixed feelings!

Wednesday, August 3, 2011

High Tensions and Stress Hormones

even though we've had time to do a lot of fun things these last couple of days, like a Baseball game in Denver, visiting with a few good friends and celebrating Sissi's 20th Birthday, the tensions of leaving in just two days are running extremely high.

We have made POA's for both of us, fixed international driving permits and made sure our ID cards are valid until I come back here.

The big problem right now is still LOGISTICS... how do we get from Germany to Sweden? Ideas?... anyone?

-Rent a car, total cost around $2k
-Train ride, Considering 8 40lb bags to get from one platform to an other, total cost around $1500
- Fly with RyanAir from a neighboring town, not knowing how to get there, total cost around $2k
-Buy a car... well it seems like the bureaucracy will out a stop to that anyway so we have crossed that option out.

AAAAaaHHHHHhhhgg............!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There, I feel much better now!